My drummer has been through some stuff recently and it's effecting his playing and his personality. the drummer, we have been best friends (and a really tight rhythm section) for a long time, and now he has all the sudden become a... a-hole to everyone. He has went as far as calling my fiance a "stupid, ugly, "female dog". (I took care of that) Every time someone talks to him, he just explodes. He's been through some crazy stuff the past couple months, but stuff that he has caused with women... And now me and my guitarist feel he will snap and try to murder us for talking to him, as he already got mad at the guitarist for talking to him and "getting into his personal life" and a near fist fight with me over the fiance name calling. So what do we do? How do I talk to him? He's a great drummer, and we're a tight rhythm section, and I really dont want to lose him, but should we just kick him out?