So as my drunk bandmembers flop a gig last night, my drunk buddy is like" dude let me play song." I'm like **** **, they were suckin anyways and they won't remember. So i let him take a song, as it's happening a good friend falls flat on her face(drunk), I had to resume but felt bad I did'nt help, should I feel bad or no my problem?? In both cases??