Apparently there is some sort of debate on who leaves feedback first... Who leaves the feedback first? The buyer or the seller? Why? Once again, I'm very new to this... My example is that I just won another item and I paid seconds after the auction was one. Does this entitle me getting feedback first? The seller won't give me feedback until he get favorable feedback from me first???? ***??? Is this strong arming? I'm a rookie at Ebay, am I missing something?