Well I finally walked away from the drummer that I have played with for over 12 years. We played for years on the road and in studios. We have expensed everything for the first time together. We also think alike when it comes to music. I always know what he is going to do during a jam or a freaky change that he would pull out of his butt at a show. But he is going through the wife thing. You guys I am sure wife crazy wife stories. But for the last few years his hatred for his own wife makes him very bitter and effects his playing greatly. It got to the point that we just dont jam anymore because of her attitude. He has pulled away from and music all together. So now after that many years I am looking for musicians again. Feels kind of like a divorce been with the same person for so long you dont know how to go about finding others. I have had soooo many offers but are most are with kids that have no experience or just suck totally. Or it is a type of music that I dont want to play. I have had my day in the sun when I was younger. I dont expect or really want to make it big. I have a family now and I am very happy with me life. So that gets rid of allot of younger bands. I just want to find musicians that are chilled out and want to really work on some creative ideas. Also I love to play out all the time. So I dont want those guys that just record in the basement. I have played bass for most of my life 21 years now. And want to do what makes me happy. Not cover radio hits. Ahh heck just ranting. Anyone else ever go through something like this? This really is heavy on my mind and I feel that I will never find the people that will work well together. I have also noticed that I have not picked up my bass at all for about 2 weeks now. My finger tips are looking like a normal persons. P.S sorry if this was not coherent enough for you guys. If not just dont post to it.