My ex/best friend lost a friend today through a head on collision. A Ford Explorer veered into her lane and killed her. She was 47 years old. It was stated that the gentleman driving the Explorer was not speeding and there were no signs of alcohol. The are investigating why he ended up in her lane. The reason why I am posting this thread is, I don't know how to be with him, to let him know that I am there for him. I feel that every thing I say to him wont make any sense. I have lost loved ones through cancer and I lost a brother through drowning. I knew my mother was dying so, I knew what to expect. I didn't know my brother too well, but it was still a tragedy, and I had my older sister to help me through that. I have never had anyone taken from me through a car accident, so I do not know what he is going through. Any suggestions on what I should do to ease his pain? Thanx in advance for your sound advice.