OK, so this will really show my inexperience, but... I just started dating this girl, and this is the first time I've ever dated a girl that didn't go to my school (I'm 18 and in high school, she's 20 and in college). I'm so used to being able to see the girls I'm dating around school -- I'd see them in class, between classes, during lunchtime, etc. Because of our schedules (The only times we can possibly meet up are Sunday morning/afternoon, Tuesday evening, Thursday evening, and Saturday morning/afternoon), we have to plan out every single minute we're going to be together. It's a foreign concept to me to have to actually have to call her and asking if she'd like to get together -- Not that I have any aversion to doing so; it just feels so weird compared to the impromptu unplanned meetings around school I had with previous girls! So here's my question: Maybe I'm just overthinking it, and maybe I'm just worrying too much, but is it possible that I'm spending too much time with her? For example, this is what happened just this week: On Sunday we went to the mall for lunch and to hang out, and Tuesday (yesterday) we went to dinner and to a movie she wanted to see. Two dates in three days. I want to spend some time with her again on Saturday but I don't know... I like her a lot, and she seems to like me *knocks on wood*, but I just feel like I'm spending a LOT of time with her. Since we went out and spent a lot of money the past two dates I want to do something really inexpensive on Saturday like "movie night" at her place or something (don't get any ideas, she lives with her grandparents ). But I'm afraid I'm gonna start getting on her nerves with so many dates, especially since we just recently started dating. Cause what I'm used to is seeing girls for 30-40 minutes daily M-F at school, and a few hours on the weekend for an actual date... but now it's more like hours and hours one day for a date, hours and hours two days later for a date, etc... It just seems really excessive compared to what I'm used to. I feel like I might get on her nerves eventually if we keep this up. What say you? Am I just stupid and out of my mind?