After spending my 20's and half my 30's as a consistent beer drinker I have decided to give it up. It's nothing to do with a New Year's resolution, just the other day I was sipping on beer feeling sorry for my since getting laid off of work. Something got me. I thought "What am I doing? I don't even enjoy this anymore." Then I got to thinking of all the money I wasted over the years, and the damage drinking has done to my family and friends. I dunno something just clicked with me, and I have lost all desire to drink. Used to be if I was going to get snowed in on a weekend I would want a stockpile of beer to last me, and as long as I had hotdogs, and Ramen I would survive. Today when I went to the grocery store, I didn't even think about buying beer, I got some veggies, steak, and yogurt. It's kind of weird how I just lost the desire to drink. What I am going to do is take my beer money and just put it into savings, now that I got a new job and payoff some old debts. Loved drinking beer for years, but the hangovers are worse, it is expensive, and I am sure I can do something better with my time.
good luck with it...really... I don't drink beer but you can send me any good Scotch you have to get rid of.
I only ever really enjoyed a beer after working up a good sweat on hot summer days and then chugging a cold one in about 20 seconds. Then relaxing with a second.
With the exception of Caffeine and tobacco, I've been completely sober for the last 18 months. Recovery is actually what led me to take up a new hobby, which is how I started playing bass. After all I needed something to spend all that extra cash on haha But I digress, I can't express enough how much my life has changed for the better since cleaning up. Best of luck to ya brother!
That's about how it went for me too. I even remember asking myself one night the same question you did. I wish you well bro, and hope this turns out the way you'd like it to. -Mike
When I went from sitting at the bar everyday after work to not drinking, it was because other things got in the way of my bar time. I signed up for a couple of classes at the community college after work, got my first computer (late 90's) and a couple other time consuming things. After a couple of months the amount I noticed that I had a lot more money than I normally did. I still have a drink now an again but I limit myself to 2 max because I would end up losing count after 3. Old habits don't die...
I used to down a six pack a week, sometimes two. I cut back, down to a six pack a month. Not because I had a problem with alcohol, nay, I enjoy a crisp Hef or a wheaty Belgian. But instead, I saw my dollars go to my waistline. And so I don't drink as much. Good luck.
I used to drink fairly heavily, now I drink less often not at all. The big difference to me other than saving money and waistline is feeling generally better/healthier and more alert.... The other benefit is I actually enjoy a drink more now than I did then (said the guy still sobering up after a 2 week bender over Christmas )
Once in a blue moon, I'll have a tipple. Not my bag either, OP. Boozin' got its marching orders twenty odd years ago. I regret nothing. Stick with it.
Congratulations! I have been struggling over the last couple years trying to quit. I have been cutting down, but its still too much. Don't be surprised if 3-4 days in, you feel like crap. Stick with it and you will end up feeling much better in the long run. Plus, the cash saved is substantial.
At this point, I'm wondering how many years of drinking I have left in me. I don't do it much anymore (maybe 1 or 2 a week), but if I go past 2 of anything, I'll definitely feel it the next day. Me and the wife went out with some friends for dinner last night, and I had 2 glasses of red wine. Closer to a glass and a half, really. I barely slept last night, and I don't feel great this morning. It's getting close to the point where ONE is going to be my limit. Getting old is fun.
I had a similar realization in my mid-20's and abruptly gave up alcohol for good when I turned 28. Every single aspect of my life miraculously began to improve and I have never once missed drinking. In my experience, it does take a certain fortitude to establish a new identity as a non-drinker. If you stick with it, you will be amazed and disgusted by how omnipresent and ubiquitous beer is in our culture. Drinking is borderline mandatory in many circles. You have to be prepared to reinvent yourself completely, on your own terms. Good luck!