Im sure everyones had this problem in the past. Other quitarist in my last band had it too, but it was a nowhere band. Me and this guitarist have come from that band and moved into this one. We started this band together, hes become an amazing singer and guitar player, and my bass skills improve by leaps and bounds (granted each leap is a month apart..), have both invested countless hours writing, recruiting a second drummer, and invested a large portion of our incomes into this band. and now.. he gets this controlling girlfriend. he spends all his time with her, and hes totally different. hes gone from a guy who plays guitar none stop, even when your trying to talk to him, to never touching the things (he has 5) when shes around. He becomes all quiet and almost depressed sounding when he talks to us, and spends most of his time cuddling with her and ignoring us. worst part is, shes from a city a few hours away, so hes putting her up right now, and trying to get us to put her up for a while. even his mom (who is a very nice lady) cant stand this girl. So how did you guys get rid of these chicks in your bands?