I had been obsessed with two girls I knew from high school in 11th Grade. I would fantasize about them all the time I was at home from school. They would start out as seemingly harmless crushes, which soon devolved into sexual obsessions on my part. One of them stopped talking to me one night on msn, before the obsession with her happened, and we never made contact again (after this is when I started obsessing). Another one didn't approve of my behavior on Facebook, and after a very short friendship, she blocked me (probably thinks I am a stalker). Hence, the reason I now de-activated my FB account for good (I had a hard time stopping my obsession with her, it went on for a good 4 years, including grade 12+ and first year of college). And yes, I used to be an avid watcher of pornography (thank peer pressure), but I quit that cold turkey a long while ago. I am honestly NOT a nutcase, but I really would like some male advice on the matter. Sorry for the long post.