I quit my job 2 months ago. I asked for a reference 3 months ago. I still dont have it! I call my boss on a daily basis at the edge of yelling at him but i restrain myself, I just calmly demand my reference and every time he says yeah Im really busy this week I'll get on it next soon. I say soon isnt good enough and it just leads no where. I live out of state now so I cant face to face confront him on this...what should I do in this position? Any help would be fantastic.