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HELP!!!

Discussion in 'Off Topic [BG]' started by username n/a, Jul 21, 2007.


  1. I hate my life is crazy man i mean im 14 and im already thinking about killing myself i mean i could never do it cuz im not that stupid but its scary when i acually do go to sleep at night i wish i dont have to wake up in the morning sometimes i just say to myself "I hate my life i wana die" is this normal?
     
  2. what do i do?
     
  3. jady

    jady

    Jul 21, 2006
    Modesto, CA
    Yes it's normal. Your 14.............


    Chill out, listen to some music, hang with friends, play bass, play video games. Your fine.
     
  4. Jazzin'

    Jazzin' ...Bluesin' and Funkin'

    Go seek actual help instead of TB.
     
  5. Spector_Ray

    Spector_Ray

    Aug 8, 2004
    Texas
    It's not normal at all. I don't know your situation, but your brief description sounded like my wife. Start off by going to your family physician and talk about what you're feeling. He/she can then refer you to a specialist. Please don't take these feelings lightly. Talk to someone ASAP.
     
  6. Assuming you are not a troll, you are 14. You have yet to even live life, so don't think for a second that you can consciously make the decision to end your life.

    Your life is "crazy", well explain. You'd be surprised how crazy some of the lives of people at TB are.

    And yes, for a teenager, in this day and age it is increasingly more normal for you to think things like that, I did sometimes at your age, but now... I just think it was silly on my part. There is a huge difference between feeling something, and acting upon something. Try to rationalize your emotions and figure things out, try to feel what is really bothering you and deal with it. Take control of your life, don't let it control you.
     
  7. HollowBassman

    HollowBassman

    Jun 24, 2007
    Hancock, MD
    Sounds like depression. I've been there, it sucked. I'm sure you can find info online about what to do about it.
     
  8. RWP

    RWP

    Jul 1, 2006
    First stop and think. If there is anyone you trust with something as important as this go talk to them. When I was your age I too thought life was tough and lots of things were going all wrong. But man you are young and things will get better. You have you entire life ahead of you, don't do something stupid. And, you are a bass player, we need you! :)
     
  9. Barfly

    Barfly

    Dec 27, 2000
    GTA, Canada
    Talk to your parents. They love you more than anyone in the world ever will. And I do mean EVER.
     
  10. I dont have friends they all left when i started to get ubsesed with Iron Maiden and my mom just got rid of the olny friend i had left my cat chester and my band mates are even worse they just dont want to play music anymore so and ontop of all that im a terrible bassist so what i can play like 4 songs and ive been playing for 2 years i can barely reed sheet music
     
  11. Fontaine

    Fontaine

    Apr 27, 2006
    em well i cant say at your age that i never had the same feeling but just do things you like to do and if people are making fun of you just vent your anger through bass, trust me a great way!

    but dont worry about it you'll be fine, just dont hurt yourself!
     
  12. Mark Wilson

    Mark Wilson Supporting Member

    Jan 12, 2005
    Toronto, Ontario
    Endorsing Artist: Elixir® Strings
    Listen, I talked to a good friend of mine, who has tried suicide, and who has MANY problems. I told her she needed to get away.
    And now, things changed for her. She waited it out, and lived life to the best she could.
    She's now getting married, and moving to England to start over.

    Also, who cares if you can't read sheet music?
    I've been playing for 7 years, and I'm at College for a Degree in Jazz. I can BARELY read sheet music.

    Listen, there is a lot to live for out there. Friends come and go. You'll make more friends. You're 14. During your teen years, you meet your lifelong friends. And I'm sure many people here on TB can vouch for that.
     
  13. jomahu

    jomahu

    Dec 15, 2004
    Bos, MA
    you're 14? keep in mind your body is going thru some really frantic chemical changes. it makes you angry, depressed, isolated, alienated...it sux, but that's the way it is.

    music saved my life. maybe it can save yours.
     
  14. HollowBassman

    HollowBassman

    Jun 24, 2007
    Hancock, MD
    Calm down, drink some water.
    I can barely read sheet music and I've been playing since I was 14.:meh:
    There's nothing wrong with only knowing 4 songs, as long as you play the hell out of them.:D
    What do you mean you don't have any friends, there are 65320 friends right here on TB.
     
  15. Fontaine

    Fontaine

    Apr 27, 2006
    actually 75,429 friends.
     
  16. HollowBassman

    HollowBassman

    Jun 24, 2007
    Hancock, MD
    Where did you get that number?
     
  17. jady

    jady

    Jul 21, 2006
    Modesto, CA
    If your friends split because you are really into maiden then they sucked in the first place (and they have no taste, Maiden rules!!!).

    At 14 you are supposed to suck, your band is supposed to suck, your supposed to feel awkward and lonely, honestly your life is supposed to suck. It's normal at your age bro, I felt the same way. Time will make it all better. Just hang in there and don't do anything stupid k?
     
  18. soulgeezer

    soulgeezer Banned

    Jan 29, 2007
    Northern New Jersey
    Endorsing Artist: Red Zone Effects
    I've been a *professional* musician for 25 years (Holy Crap! :eek: ) and I can't read sheet music at all.

    Now, go talk to your Mom. Whether you think so right now or not, she loves you. If you talk to her calmly and tell her how you're feeling, she'll most probably do whatever she can to help you.

    If not, then talk to your doctor or find a local counseling center. Look in the phonebook or check online for listings in your area -- There *are* people who want to help.

    But, don't look to the Internet. The people here don't know you and you don't know them. And, you don't know the quality of the advice you'll get here.

    In short, many 14 year olds feel as you do. Unfortunately, it's not that unusual. Fortunately, because so many people have felt like you, there are places where you can find help.
     
  19. Fontaine

    Fontaine

    Apr 27, 2006
  20. wdinc01

    wdinc01

    Nov 19, 2005
    Jacksonville, FL
    Wait, you're obsessed with Iron Maiden but you don't have friends? I'm pretty sure there's some local groups for Maiden fans that you could probably check out and meet people.

    But yeah, it's sadly normal for you to have those kind of feelings. In this day and age, people glamorize the idea that killing yourself is acceptable. Well, it isn't. So there.

    Oh and for what it's worth, I can read sheet music, but not for bass. Why? Because I joined band, where you'll always have friends.
     

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