Because right now it seems like a good idea. We've been together for almost 3 years now, but the last year has been quite turbulant. Fighting constantly, about things I consider frivolous. Some bigger issues, bills, bills... and bills. But I don't feel much for her anymore it seems. It's really crazy thinking about it, but I really don't think that I am right for her. She needs Romeo, I need Marla Singer... Actually, I need to be single... for a long long long time. I've given this dating thing a shot for a few years now... not really my bag. And I... I I... Think sex is overrated too. But as much as I think I'm not right for her, she'd fall to pieces. She'd get really depressed. Also, I'd have to move, so we'd need someone to take over the lease at our apartment. Anyone here have experience/advice about ending long termish relationships?