I finally got an awesome offer from a professional band, after having a rough summer of bar gigs. This new opportunity will have me on the road 3 days a week, every single week. I have three kids, a fiance, a farm, and a day job. I'm considering taking this gig because the money is excellent, it pays better than my day job. I need to keep my day job, so I'm concerned I will get burned out from constantly working, and not having time for my family or my farm. I need advice from people who have been there and done that.