I joined a band about 2 years ago with the intent of gigging. The band was interesting to me because they have a built in audience in the city we live in. They are 1 of 3 Bengali bands. In the year that we've been together, we've only had 1 show and another that is planned for about a month from now. The set list is changing, the members aren't confident, they seem to lean on my a lot for direction. I'm ready to leave, indicated that I want to pursue other things and they are begging me to stay. "We'll do more English songs" "We'll get rid of the weakest link" I currently play at church and with 3 other bands.. I offered to coach them if they hired a Bengali bassist. Any help?