I quit this group i was playing with recently because they were just not getting anywhere. So now i'm looking for other opportunities. Mainly i have been looking in CL and have found a few that i thought would be a good fit. When i e-mail them they always reply and ask me to show up and jam, no phone call so i can tell if these guys are sane, no anything. I usually reply that i would like to get a set list or some songs they play, and that is when the communications stop. This is the fourth time in the past few weeks. What am i doing wrong? Is it too much to ask to see what songs they have been playing?