OK, I cheesed out. I just quit my band by email to the boss (girl singer). We weren't going to meet for at least another 2 weeks, and I didn't want to wait. I've been thinking about this for several months, and I just want to get on with my musical life. Reasons are too many to enumerate, but it had to happen. I was one of the core members (The boss, her husband and me) so it'll probably be unhappy news on the other end. MOTL.