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I just left my mom's house...

Discussion in 'Off Topic [BG]' started by Mike Money, Oct 6, 2004.


  1. Mike Money

    Mike Money Banned

    Mar 18, 2003
    Bakersfield California
    Avatar Speakers Endorsing Hooligan
    SSSSSSSSSSooooooooooooooooooooooooooo..............

    My sisters "bad ass marine" boyfriend has been living with us for the last month or so. Fine... whatever. Stay the hell outta my way, ya know?

    Today i am on the phone, and he pours some cranberry juice... so I make a joke about it being for his feminal odors... he doesnt like that. Starts threatning to rat me out for stuff... so I take it back just to shut him up. My sister comes in, and tells me to be nice to him...

    Now, me and my sister bicker like soccer moms. And it is all in good fun... So I give her the "Bitch, im on the phone."

    Well, mr BAM decides to get in my face and tell me not to call her that blah blah blah...

    Push comes to shove... He grabs me by the neck, trying to intimidate me into bending to his will. It doesnt work. I hang up the phone, grab him as best i can, and push him against the table.

    He keeps screaming at me to "Come on, lets go." and I'm thinking "Boy, you grabbed me. You wanna throw punches, you can throw first." I get out of his grasp, yell a barage of obscenities, go into my room and crank some Anthrax.

    I'm mad enough to cry, so I am.

    Then I pack what I would need... school stuff, clothes, toiletries.. get in my truck, and go to my dads.

    An hour and a half later, my mom finds all this out. She tells me to go home, I say no.

    So I agreed to go to my grandmas to meet her to talk... and im waiting for her now.

    The real issue with me and him... is we are exact opposites. He is really conservative, very square... and compared to him, im quite liberal and such. Just a clash of views...

    My mom says she'll tell him to move out... but his parents are dead, so he really has no where to go.

    I don't mind if he is there... But he has no right to get in my face about stuff that happened before his ass ever showed up. He has no right to interfere with how me and my family operate, if he has a problem with it, then he can get the hell out.

    So basicly, as long as he shuts up and minds his own, im fine with him.

    He got moved into the office.. which is next to my room. Both are on opposite sides of the house from the other people. I was given that room because I make noise late at night. Guitars... music... V-drums... Thats why im out there. I can't do that now, because all of a sudden there is someone that would be offended by the noise..

    My mom is acting like living with my dad is a bad thing... but its not. I've lived with her for 17 years almost. Change is good, right?

    Gah. maybe i'm being childish....

    Thoughts? (Dont bother with the "why is your sisters boyfriend living with you?" tripe.... i went over it in another thread.)
     
  2. Trevorus

    Trevorus

    Oct 18, 2002
    Urbana, IL
    Do what you gotta do. Physical threats like that would make my blood boil, but I am just a hot-head like that. I would probably do something really evil to him, but if you get the chance to talk to him in a calm situation, then just tell him that you don't appreciate the way he steps in and messes with the way your family works. But about the way you talked to your sister, he probably is just trying to be protective of her. It might take her saying that it's ok before he is ok with it. So just talk it out rationally. If you really need to get out, do.
     
  3. Marlat

    Marlat

    Sep 17, 2002
    London UK
    Give it a few days to settle and gather your thoughts and then get Munjibunga to go and have a few "words" with him.

    Seriously, things seem less dramatic after a couple of days to cool down. Just hang out relax and see how you feel then. Now is not the ideal time to make long term decisions, too many emotions getting in the way of good reasoning.
     
  4. DigMe

    DigMe

    Aug 10, 2002
    Waco, TX
    Good advice, good advice....after you do that then crap in his shoes.

    brad cook
     
  5. The dude is a guest in your home and he acts like that. probably sponging off your sister and mom...no guest in my home would ever get away with that..he should be gone not you..
     
  6. Munjibunga

    Munjibunga Total Hyper-Elite Member Gold Supporting Member

    May 6, 2000
    San Diego (when not at Groom Lake)
    Independent Contractor to Bass San Diego
    Be careful. He may rip out your spine and shove it down your throat. I had to do that to a punk teenager once.

    USMC, '67-'70

    BTW, a free prize to anyone who can come up with the reference to that spine thing.
     
  7. I respect you for not breaking his neck. I have an awful temper and probably would have myself. He may not have parents, but I would have thought that it would have made him evermore greatful for all that your family is doing. I think the best option would be to let him have one last chance. If he interferes in anything not related to him, especially when being verbally or physically violent, then you should kick his ass outta there. Its your family and he has no right to threaten you while living in your family's home.

    Leigh
     
  8. DigMe

    DigMe

    Aug 10, 2002
    Waco, TX
    Teletubbies?

    brad cook
     
  9. Mike Money

    Mike Money Banned

    Mar 18, 2003
    Bakersfield California
    Avatar Speakers Endorsing Hooligan
    From now on, he is just on my "ignore as much as possible" list.
     
  10. Marlat

    Marlat

    Sep 17, 2002
    London UK
    I'm pretty sure that was Bill Clinton to George W Bush when they were discussing Al Gore's temper.
     
  11. Hella_Groovy

    Hella_Groovy

    Aug 31, 2004
    Richmond Va
    Well, you've got a cooler head than me, just reading that makes me wanna take a ball bat to that shaved gorillia. "Semper Fi! HOO RAH !!"
     
  12. Mike Money

    Mike Money Banned

    Mar 18, 2003
    Bakersfield California
    Avatar Speakers Endorsing Hooligan
    Another thing...

    How bad ass does he look picking fights with 16 year olds?
     
  13. Hella_Groovy

    Hella_Groovy

    Aug 31, 2004
    Richmond Va
    You've hit the nail on the head my friend, thats all these macho marine a-holes are all about: pushing around weaker people to reinforce their manhood.
     
  14. Munjibunga

    Munjibunga Total Hyper-Elite Member Gold Supporting Member

    May 6, 2000
    San Diego (when not at Groom Lake)
    Independent Contractor to Bass San Diego
    mmmmmmmmmmnope. Good guess, though.
     
  15. Munjibunga

    Munjibunga Total Hyper-Elite Member Gold Supporting Member

    May 6, 2000
    San Diego (when not at Groom Lake)
    Independent Contractor to Bass San Diego
    Yes, it's great practice for when they are doing what we pay them to do.
     
  16. Mike Money

    Mike Money Banned

    Mar 18, 2003
    Bakersfield California
    Avatar Speakers Endorsing Hooligan

    He has no manhood.

    He does not act like a guy at all... Nor does he act like a woman.

    He won't admit that some celebrity babe is hot... he call my sister pretty if i ask him if he thinks she is...

    and he acts very disgusted at the thought of homosexuality.

    repressed? probably.
     
  17. Hella_Groovy

    Hella_Groovy

    Aug 31, 2004
    Richmond Va
    Try 'Definitely'. I would leave gay porn in his room :p
     
  18. Mudfuzz

    Mudfuzz

    Apr 3, 2004
    WA...
    Even if this were the case he'd still be a jerk. A jerk is a jerk, your sex and or sexual preference wont change that.
     
  19. bassjamn

    bassjamn

    Jan 4, 2002
    San Francisco
    Well it's not the same quote but Ahhnold said something like that on this soundboard.

    http://www.ebaumsworld.com/arnolds4.html

    its the one on the far right called "RAM STOMACH" :bag:
     
  20. Nick man

    Nick man

    Apr 7, 2002
    Tampa Bay
    Man, you joke with your sister and the dude and physically threatens you?

    Screw him.