OK, I'm thinking it's time to have at least "the talk", at most, say we're going to make a change. Our drummer texts and says she can't make rehearsal tonight. Granted, this rehearsal is not a normal scheduled night and was scheduled two days ago. She's (still) having car trouble. The same trouble that has been plaguing her since the 2nd week in Jan. So the question is: do I hold the times against that she texted and said she couldn't make a rehearsal that was going to be cancelled anyway? That scenario has happened twice. Or hold tonight against her? Had rehearsal been on as scheduled, she would have missed 6 of the last 9, been late for two more, and only on time for 1. I don't want to kick a person when they're down, but it's really affecting band momentum. Since Jan 05: 1/07: cancelled 1/15: cancelled 1/22: cancelled 1/29: 45m late 2/05: 45m late 2/08: (not rehearsal related) needed her drum kit from our rehearsal place, but left a band member waiting for 30m after he made a special trip to open the place. 2/12: no rehearsal / she cancelled 2/19: on time 2/26: no rehearsal 3/05: no rehearsal / she cancelled 3/09: rehearsal, but on 2d notice - she can't make it.