Well little backstory first: I was engaged a little over a month ago but she turned into a wicked psycho so I had to leave her and she kinda ruined my perspective on women now. Last night I went out with this girl I met at a party. This wasn't any offical date or anything. We went to the park and went on the swings and talked for a while (she says she does this with all her friends) then went to eat and later chill at her friends house. All the while we talked and I think she is barnone the most awesome female I ever met. She likes classic rock and variations of. I love everything from Enya to Slayer to The Beatles to Putrid Pile. a few months ago she broke up with her boyfriend who chose her room mate over her. Like I said before we talked, laughed, and shared horror stories from donating plasma. Now I am falling head over heels for her. She is just this big ray of sunshine in my desolate pit of a life. I can live with having her as a friend but I want more. Is there a way to tell her this without scaring her away?