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I must be a closet gay or at least bi!

Discussion in 'Off Topic [BG]' started by Depth_Charge, Jun 23, 2007.

  1. After chatting to my missus about the PDA (public display of affection) thread, she hit me up on a few questions from her knowledge of me.

    As we chatted I found myself admitting that as far as looks and demeanour go yes, I considered Leonardo D'Caprio, Brad Pitt and "Sawyer" from Lost attractive males in "the scheme of things"**.

    She also then reminded me about a comment I made years ago (when I was fat) after a training session at Ju Jits. I'd said something along the lines of being capable of admiring the sculpting of some males. And appreciating the work they put into achieving the result.

    So I must secretly like men hey? ;)

    ** - Surprisingly, my tastes in men from a looks perspective are the same as my wifes.

    Even more surprisingly I can't believe I just typed "my taste in men"!!

    :D :D :D
  2. Baryonyx

    Baryonyx Inactive

    Jul 11, 2005
    Marathon Man
    Women, eh?

    They all have terrible taste in men! :p
  3. Please go read, re-read and read again the man law thread. Then gouge your eyes out :eyebrow:

    Someone :help: this guy!! :meh:
  4. That sure as hell got my attention, all other thread reading on hold till further notice.....

    I don't really see anything wrong with what you said but if you had of mentioned Mr Bean or John Howard then yep you have serious issues!

    As for the admiring of male form, in an admiration or that's a good form, yep. Do it all the time with my wife. In fact last night was the last time. I'm mildly interested in b/building and MA so if I see a build I think is good and the bloke has worked hard at it I sometimes make a point of saying he's done a good job etc.

  5. jady


    Jul 21, 2006
    Modesto, CA
    I can appreciate a hot chick without wanting to have sex with her cuz I am married. What's the difference between appreciating a sexy girl and not wanting to act on it and appreciating a sexy guy and not wanting to act on it?
  6. middy


    Mar 14, 2007
    Just because you can appreciate male beauty doesn't make you "bi". It just means you are secure enough in your own sexuality to be able to admit to yourself and others that some men are more aesthetically pleasing than others.

    Only men who don't trust themselves not to "go gay" would even pretend to deny the difference between these two gentlemen:




  7. bassturtle


    Apr 9, 2004
    I don't think this makes you gay. I think if you thought "I'd like to stick my **** in that guy's ***" then you might need to rethink your marriage to a female.

    For the longest time I used to say I was going to register www.ifiweregayidhavesexwithseanconnery.com
  8. you guys are scaring the living crap out of me

    MAJOR METAL The Beagle Father Supporting Member

  10. MakiSupaStar

    MakiSupaStar The Lowdown Diggler

    Apr 12, 2006
    Huntington Beach, CA
    I admire the gut on other guys. But I'm pretty sure I'm not gay.
  11. Poop-Loops

    Poop-Loops Inactive

    Mar 3, 2006
    Auburn, Washington
    Exactly. I can tell who is "hotter" or even "hot" as a guy, but I'm not attracted to them.

    The same way I can tell you which cat is cuter without wanting to pork it.
  12. labgnat

    labgnat Inactive

    Oct 29, 2005
    outta this world
    it's wild how theres more gay threads now than ever after it was said not too. everyone trying to be rebels.
  13. middy


    Mar 14, 2007
    Why do you feel so threatened. Afraid you'll "go gay"? :D
  14. it was a joke. I'm cool with homosexuality as it provides a different view on life and or sex. Accept it as Homosexuality isn't going any where any time soon.
  15. labgnat

    labgnat Inactive

    Oct 29, 2005
    outta this world
    the easiest test to find out if you're truly gay is to ask yourself if you want to have sex with a guy. if not then you're not. if so then you are. It has nothing to do with thinking oh i can see how a girl would think that guy is cute.
  16. middy


    Mar 14, 2007
    It goes beyond that. At least for me. Sometimes I'll do a double take and be like "Wow! He's beautiful!"

    Still doesn't mean I want to go to bed with him....
  17. Vic Winters

    Vic Winters Supporting Member

    Apr 20, 2006
    Western NY
    Just remember, it's not gay if you yell "stop".
  18. No, I think the best way is to actually have sex with a guy. If you wake up feeling joyful and at peace with the world, you're gay. If you wake up with a terrible feeling of regret and disgust, then HAHA too bad you already did the nasty with a guy, sucker!

    MAJOR METAL The Beagle Father Supporting Member

    Yeah that pretty much sums it up. ;)
  20. Fabulous.
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