My band was formed in september when we finally got a drummer. My original intentions were to make a band that was like Dave Matthews Band and Phish. So for the first few jam sessions, it was just me the drummer and the rythym guitar player which joined the group when we got our drummer because this kid was into all those kinds of bands. Then about 2 weeks later we brought my friend who is the lead guitar player. Everything was going the way that i liked it until my friend came along, he is completely opposite of the Dave Matthews thing, so even from the start, he was trying to put more of a metal spin on the music. Lately, the songs we've been writing his trying to put a mars volta spin our music(DAMN THAT BAND!) and all he does when he's playing on his own is all those stupid feedback things they're guitarist does. So now you have a band where the original intentions started as a Jam band and now its just noise since all that has been written is mars volta like stuff. sorry if that made no sense but my rant is i can't stand playing bizarre stuff like that. i want to pay music people want to hear like dave matthews plus at the same time thats making me a better player bassline structure wise. I'm not enjoying myself playing this crap, what should i do, should i have a nice talk about making our music differant to a more listener friendly, have a talk with them and have a more mature way of leaving the band, or just get pissed off with them and leave on a very unprofessional approach. what should i do?