Ok guys, I'm new here, but not to bass playing. I've been playing off and on for the past 15 years or so, and in that time I have also played guitar here and there, and have also been an avid drummer. I really love playing bass though, for reasons I'm sure you guys can all relate to. I've been without instrumentation for the past few years due to financial reasons, but have recently aquired a really nice guitar and amp, but after noodling around with them some, I realize my passion is the bass. My dilemma is this...my father is a drummer, who wanted to play guitar but couldn't. His hands and fingers are waaay too stubby. I think he takes pride in the fact that I can play guitar, and I think he thinks I wouldn't be living up to my potential as a bass player. What would be a good way to tell him that I enjoy bass more, so that he can understand where I am coming from?