So I am in a weird situation. I just moved to SF 3 weeks ago, into a house with roommates I had never met. Things are good. Enter the friend of roommate/landlord-type-person. Friend of roommate is cute, smart, and friendly. Friend and me hit it off, and well... taa-dow. Not a normal thing for me at all; I'm from the South. All of a sudden friend will not talk to me. Blocked my AIM name, the whole bit. Southern boy is not happy; wants to see said friend again. No contact. This is a problem, but not THE problem. THE problem is this: friend keeps coming over to hang out with roommate/landlord-type-person, who knows about the whole thing. Friend does not want to talk to me; ignores me completely, and rebuffs any attempts to communicate. Does not want to be friends, even. I can accept this, even though I am not happy about it. BUT I LIVE HERE!!! My heart is hurting, and I can't even escape her to get over it. So, is it appropriate to ask roommate/landlord-type-person to not bring her over anymore? Or should I have to flee/hide anytime she comes over? I feel like a prisoner in my own house. This is hell. Yeah, this is an innapropriate post, but I dont' have any friends here yet to talk to about it. Besides, the voice of reason speaks in numbers. What do you guys/gals think?