Two bands.. I am in one.. great musicians in the band.. play out once monthly.. Another, mediocre band that somehow gets 3-4 shows monthly.. called.. I am tempted to quit the band and join the mediocre band.. because they have more shows.. I have a blast now.. except for fighting over song choices.. and there are some months with ZERO shows.. because everyone is busy (except me). Should I settle and risk it? Switch to a band that will maybe let me go.. or maybe has issues about which I am unaware (I would be their 2nd bassist in one year).. This is an open-ended question.. and I welcome opinions... not necessarily about what I should do.. but "what would you do?" "Have you had this happen before?" My loyalty tells me to stay put.