I've been thinking about something for a while now : several people from my high school (and also some people I went out with to disco's and pubs) are married and have children. Yeah I know, each to his own but they all have a partner that is either 10 years older or younger than themselves.. I don't really see the point of having children as a girl with the age of 19 / 20 while your husband is somewhere around 30. Shouldn't they make fun, go out and make fun with some people from their own age? And the allround question I've heard a billion times : ''When are you gonna marry and / or gonna have children?''. Huh, I'm only 23 years old, a bit young to have children in my own holy opion that is.. I think somewhere around 26 / 27 years old is a nice age (and of course a partner that is around the same age like me ). But looking at the fact I know more people with children or those who are married makes me wonder : is there something I missed or is it just something from ''one of these days''?