I've just joined a new band which I've been happy gigging with my last two bands. The guitarist is a very good friend but he seems very controlling (Like the last band). He told the whole band that he knows what volume we should all be so he is saying that every rehearsal and gig he is going to control our amp settings before we play? I'm having none of this, I told him that I like my bass a certain tone and he's saying that all basses should be deep and boomy.. (A whole pile of mud to me) I've been told to turn the middle and high frequencies down! I've told him that I'll be controlling my own bass settings or else leaving!.. Anyway, is was pretty annoying. We've all agreed that we'll have an equal say in the band which is the way I think it should be. Has anyone else got stories?