I am at work right now and just got a call from my fiance. My son who just turned 16 is in band. They practice at the drummers house. Well, today the drummer hung himself! They took him to the hospital, but he didnt survive. He was 15 I have met his parents, the father would pick up the rest of the band and take them to his house for practice. The father seemed to be a very nice guy. I can not image their devestation. I am going to say a prayer for their family tonight. I have no idea what I going to say to my son tonight. According to my fiance he is understandbly very shaken by this. I just want to head home now and talk to him. I tend to forget how hard being a teenager can be. My son tends to be very quiet and keeps things to himself, I have to get through to him that he can talk to me about anything. I have no idea what I would do if I was in the drummers fathers shoes. If you have children, let them know how much they mean to you, and that they can talk to you about anything without any judgements.