Just lost a good gig.

Discussion in 'Off Topic [BG]' started by Chris A, Oct 27, 2002.

  1. Chris A

    Chris A Chemo sucks!

    Feb 25, 2000
    Manchester NH
    My drummer called me today, the guitar player in our little blues power trio went out partying with his former band mates. He passed out on the bass player's couch, and he didn't wake up. They are going to do the autopsy on Monday. He just lost his wife to cancer 5 weeks ago. He seemed to be doing much better in the last couple of weeks. He's been taking care of the business they ran and was practicing the new tunes we were learning. I suppose we'll never know if he really wanted to do it or if it was an accident.

    Chris A.:rolleyes:
  2. Chace90

    Chace90 Supporting Member

    Feb 1, 2002
    Denver, CO
    I'm sorry to hear that. It's never easy to lose a friend, especially like that. Hopefully he's happier now.
  3. WildBill


    Jul 7, 2002
    WOW, I thought this was a "We didnt make our last show and it wouldve been our best, but theres always next time " story...wow yet another example of how fragile life is.:(
  4. I thought so, too. Sorry man...
  5. RawBassist


    Sep 1, 2002
    Hey, sorry about the loss. I send my condolences along with the rest of us TBers who don't respond.
    Good luck and god bless y'all.
  6. Nick Gann

    Nick Gann Talkbass' Tubist in Residence

    Mar 24, 2002
    Silver Spring, MD
    I'm so sorry to hear that.

    It seems like you've lost more than a good gig, but a good friend too.

    Like I always say when someone dies:

    Remember: Do not mourn their death, but celebrate their life.
  7. Bob Clayton

    Bob Clayton Moderator Staff Member Supporting Member

    Aug 14, 2001
    Deptford, NJ
    im sorry to hear, my guitarist is my best friend, i can only imagine how i'd feel if he died

  8. odie

    odie Supporting Member

    Please tell me they didnt have kids!!

    Thats sad, sorry to hear that.
  9. Chris A

    Chris A Chemo sucks!

    Feb 25, 2000
    Manchester NH
    It was the second marriage for both of them, they each had children, but none of the children lived with them. His kids are in Florida with his ex, and her kids were already out of the nest.

    Chris A.:rolleyes: :(
  10. odie

    odie Supporting Member

    Well that is a very small blessing, but sad none the less.
  11. Gabu


    Jan 2, 2001
    Woodland Hills, CA
    I am sorry to hear about that, man. :(