i'm in a bit of a situation here. basically, 3 bands need me right now. and how much i'd love to play in all of them, practising 4 or 5 times a week, doing sports, doing the highest form of middle school possible and having quite a social life just doesn't work. and i can't pick. it's so impossible. all those thoughts of ''what if i leave this band and they get like uber-famous without me''. so irritating . ah, well...at least i got you guys to help me choose here comes the story: band#1:afterbreakdown (punk/rock) this band i co-founded with the lead gui**** and the singer(female)/rhythm gui****. i actually brought a drummer in a few days ago, with whom we have yet to practise. every song of this band is built up from the start with my help, the songs are part of me in a way...but it's too easy. it's just too easy. they won't let me play bass solos, and the gui****s' play just doesn't give me motivation to look up my limits. also, it's an hours drive to the practise thingy, and we only got like, 3 songs, which are so easy i get bored to death. band#2 voice without subject (metalcore/punk) i've only jammed once with the lead gui**** of this band, and it was kinda awesome we have like 70% the same taste in music, and both really want to look up our limits, saying in speed and tecniques of making music. but i'm just not sure about this, mainly because they don't have drummer, and don't really show motivation to really start off with makung songs and stuff band#3: yet unnamed(that's not the name, we just dont have one)(i was thinking about the name social deathwish, what do y'all think?). this is a tough one to tell the story about. i've only met the lead singer, but i like him so much, and we have like 99% the same music taste (as in, we can bothe enjoy slipknot, green day, bullet for my valentine and a load other different stuff) and the same motivation, and i'm told the other potential members have the same motivation. we really want to start off as a band, begin with a little punk-like stuff, and evolve into our own thing, our own way of music making. i don't really know how to discribe it, but i just have really good feeling with this band.. i really don't know what to pick...help?