I'll try to keep things simple. I am already in a hard rock cover band, currently on a break while we settle on a new singer. Auditions are already happening, so it wont be that long. We have a solid group otherwise. I went on CL to find another project to fill the gap. I'm 30, but answered an ad for some self proclaimed "geezers", because they are located practically around the corner. I was pleasantly surprised by the setlist- Frankenstein, Wanton Song, Freeway Jam- really classic, engaging material. No overplayed radio junk here! I've been working on their material, I have maybe 1/5th of it down so far. This went down over the last 2 months or so, as they dont seem in much of a rush. They also practice...get this...at 8 on Saturday night! Both of us have had to call off practice more than once due to schedule conflicts. Last weekend, I was approached by a prolific local cover band. They need a FILL IN bassist, but i get the feeling they may need me more as time goes by. They gig regularly, playing the hard rock and metal that is in my wheelhouse. They have a massive setlist of pretty fast tunes, only a few of which I know. Two days ago, the geezers put their ad back on CL. I sent them an email, asking if they had given up on me. They replied that they havent, they're hoping they can take the ad down after hearing me play. How do I go about prioritizing this? I want to be a person who keeps their commitments, but I feel like I've bitten off more than I can chew.