My wife and I found out this afternoon that she miscarried. Needless to say, we're both crushed. This is extremely hard to talk about, but I would like some advice from people who've been here. She was about 3 1/2 months along, making the fetus the size of a lemon. Because of this, it's obviously too large for her to pass like most early miscarriages. We have to go in tomorrow to figure out how they'll remove the fetus from her. The two options the doctor wants us to look at are 1. D and C. They'll dialate (did I spell that right?) her to 10cm and sugically remove the fetus. This would be an out-patient procedure done in the OB clinic we use. 2. They'd admit her to a hospital, vaginally insert a pill which would induce labor. So she'd be basically birthing the dead baby. Right now we're leaning towards option number 1. I think option number 2 is going to be a little too hard for her emotionally. Has anyone experienced either of the above two things? Have any thoughts on either of them? Obviously, we'll probably go with whatever the doctor prefers, but again, I think option number 2 will be a bit too much for my wife. Thanks for any input.