Well, a lot of you probably have read about the past BS issuses I have had with my band, and I have finally had enought.....I am done with it. I would like your opinion though on whether I am right, or maybe I am being a little selfish and insensitive. Here's the deal: We have a gig booked for this weekend, and we are totally unprepared for, even though we have known about it 2 months in advance. It's one night, from 10-2, and we usually bring a band with us to soak up a couple of those hours. Due to other people's lack of commitment, other things going on, or pure laziness we haven't practiced as a band for quite some time. We normally practice on Tuesdays, but our singer says he "doesn't have his head right" to take care of practice, or to honor the gig it is too late to get ready for this weekend. This here is my major problem. Our singer does have a lot of family issues going on right now, that anyone would be upset about, no fault there. But I feel he should suck it up and take care of his previous commitments, he doesn't look at it this way apparently. yet he can sit on the computer online all day, then tell me about how he is soooo busy he probably can't make it to practice. As many of you may have already read, this same club we are to play this weekend, just hooked us up with a great gig with Quiet Riot next month. I think if we stiff them on this weekend, we won't get to do that gig anymore, nor any more at that place. Singer doesn't seem to care, but it royally pisses me off. I'm heading to practice tonight to pick up my share of our earnings in my account, and let them know that the Quiet Riot gig (if we still get to do it) will be my grand finale with the band. I will most likely have most, if not all of my gear for sale, since I won't be in a band anymore, I don't need all this stuff, and my personal finances don't justify keeping it. If there's anything you might be interested in, let me know....cheezewiz gets first shot at the modulus though. Thanks for listening to me whine.