See, we been gigging for about two years now. we all have good jobs outside of our band, which none of us could really give up if we want to support ourselves. To our good fortune, in the last 6 months, our band has gained a very good reputation and following and now we're getting offers for every weekend. It used to be great - a few gigs a month. now we are looking at every friday, saturday and sunday. its kind of flattering that we are in demand, but i can't give up an executive position with my company for my band, sorry. the real issue is with the singer - he wants to make it his career, which is all fine. I have suggested that he find a few other players that he can work with so that he can get all those gigs that me and the drummer can't do. He says that the instinct and feel of this band can't be replicated and he won't play without us. Have any of you guys ever been in this position?