Okay. I'm very new to bass. I'm actually expecting my first (a Kramer Focus for $100) tomarrow. Yes, I'm starting a band, but everyone's telling me two things: 1.) you can't be in a punk/rock band 'cause your a GIRL and, 2.) if you could be in a band your supposed to sing and play lead guitar, not bass! I hate this town. Anyone's thoughts? I'm not quitting because of either of those reasons!