before i even start this thread, let me say 1) i am not whining 2) just asking if this has happened to others and how they dealt with it ok, so, im with my girlfriend, we havn't been together that long, but still i like her, now today we find out she is moving to New Mexico on March 2nd... obviously we are both up set about this since it will be an "unwanted breakup" seeing as a NJ-NM relation has little chances of working now here is a question that everyone could answer how should we approach this? like when would you choose to end the relationship? end it soon so to give some sort of closure or keep ti going till the last minute? now for the people that have had a girlfriend/boyfriend move far away which resulted in a break up, what did you do? how did you handle everything?