Band I was in up till last year had a pretty ugly breakup...lots of reasons for that but basically four of the other members just started gigging on their own without telling myself and the guitar player they had a new project starting up, add in some other stuff like changing dates for confirmed gigs at the last minute to dates I couldn't make, and it just all ended up being an unpleasant ending to a band. Flash forward to this year, the guitar player and I are trying to start over...have an awesome drummer, wanted to get some jams in, but needed keys so reluctantly I agreed to use the KB from the band described above. 2 days after the studio session, turns out the KB player has recruited the drummer we used for the project that my former bandmates had started up, I guess their drummer has some issues or something with work and isn't able to play or commit consistently..I'm just like ***. I get the whole concept of networking, and people are free to play with whomever they like, but part of me just feels like the KB player used this session as phishing opportunity to find a new drummer for the project he and the other former bandmates have. I know...petty right?