Ok, here's how it's goin' Mr. Food Monster... I am the only member of my band who hasn't been friends since high school. They were looking for a bassist, found me on myspace, we jammed, I'm in the band. Chill dudes, all around, don't even fit the metal persona, we kinda look metal, but all really laid back. Or so I thought. The frontman for my band has always struck me as a timid fellow, but back in the day, they were in a Grindcore band, and he was the singer and acted absolutely insane. I don't know, I heard he use to be drunk/on drugs and break ****. He played on campus, and aparently busted through one of the walls or something, all sorts of crazy stories that I can barely believe from such a chill dude. I didn't know this until recently. NOW it makes sense, at first I thought, we sound pretty good, why can't we get gigs around here? Why won't the student art league let us play on campus? All of it's coming together. There isn't much I can do about it, hopefully people will come to know him as a more grown up guy now, and we can get some out of town gigs or something... I don't even know. I don't know if I'm seeking advice, or just need to vent or what, I'm not bailing on the band, but it's like we've been blacklisted from a few local music spots.