ok, so heres the deal. theres this girl i like and iv liked her for a long time but the only problem has been that she has had a boyfriend and they broke up a couple of weeks back. Ever since we have been talking a whole lot more, she lives about 2 hours away so its not like i can see her whenever i want or anything but im going out to where she lives next week and she already said (yea she has me wipped and i dont even go out with her lol) that were'r going watching "Knocked Up" together and my sister was going to bring me to a few clubs mainly because im finishing up school but then the girl i liked said if you dont want to go down we can hang out...well i said sure but anyway what do you guys think is she just tryig to get her mind off of her ex (she said that they are just friends now...) and being a teese, or is there something better?
Dude. Right next to the place where you left your brain you might find those periods and punctuation that you lost somewhere along the way while posting this
I wouldn't get your hopes up, in fact, I personally believe in never getting your hopes up (so that you can never truly be disappointed)... I do on the other hand think that there is a chance, just don't rush it, and certainly don't confuse her vulnerability with wanting to actually be with you (unless you are alright with just casual hookups). If you do plan on building a solid relationship with her over time, then I suggest as said before, in taking it slow and waiting till she is ready to commit to another relationship.
Dude 2 hours away, and you can't get to see her when you want? Find someone more local is my advice. Or, if you want her, don't worry why she is closer now and try to take her! Get your ass over there and tell her to her face what she means to you, and just go from there. At least you'll know if you are just an emotional tampon or in with a chance Good luck!!
ok. i think you should, like TOTALLY go over there and, like TOTALLY tell her how you feel. because, you like NEVER KNOW what might happen and this might be your only chance to see what might happen. Like, OK?
sarcastic? lol but well im moving to where she lives in a few months so im hoping its not all one big teese.
You've got a shot. But, don't rush her...play it cool...make her do some work...even then...don't get your expectations out of place...let it take some time.
Get her drunk, bang her senseless, impregnate her, and then disappear. It's the latest fad these days. Everyone's doing it.
Rebound or tease. If you have the energy to go down there, go for it. I wouldn't expect anything else.
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