OK, so here's the backstory: I've been looking for a band for about a month now. I've met with several and talked to dozens more, but I hadn't really found any of interest. Last weekend, I auditioned for a band that seems appealing. They all have professional jobs, just like me, and are looking for a weekend gig. They are all good musicians. They are playing "classic rock" which I like, although I must admit it wouldn't be my first choice. My audition lasted for approximately 2 hours, at the end of which they offered me the position. I accepted, and have been trying to get a song list out of them all week to start learning songs (cover band). They've given me a list, but it's fairly disorganized and I can't get any concensus on which songs we will learn first. So far, I know six of their songs. Fast forward to today. I was parusing the musolist and saw an ad for a band that fit what I was looking for. I replied to the ad, and made the mistake of putting my e-mail address in it. Turns out that two seperate members of the band I played with last week had posted two seperate ads. They read totally differently and really didn't seem to describe the same band. Because I was doing this at work, I just shot off a quick reply and didn't really read the ad in detail. Needless to say, I have been discovered and they aren't too happy. Even though it's been a few years since I was in a band, I know how this works. Sometimes, bands just fall apart. Other times, you think you're in the band, only to find out that they were just using you until someone better came along. Other times still, you find out that the band or it's members just arent a good fit and decide to move on. I was, and am, still replying to ads because I feel like any of these thing could happen. Given that I have only played with these guys once, for 2 hours, I really don't feel any loyality to them, and I assume they feel none to me. I also explained to them that I was talking to several other bands, although I didn't specifically tell them that I would also be talking to new bands until this one solidified. I have explained this to them, nicely, and I am waiting for their reply. What do you think? Did I do something wrong, or would you have done the same thing.