I went to open mic night last night and this one guitar dude that is always there was the only guitarist again. All we ever play is stuff he knows. He always goes into a song and says "follow me". But if I tell him to follow me he says he doesn't know the song. Now, that sounds like a double standard to me. Why do us bassists get pused back and expected to be everybody's damn back up player? And the few songs I wanted to play, I had to sit there and tell him every note to play (which is totally fine). But he never tells me. However, he does let the other guitarist know what chords and notes to play. Thats wrong.