First of all he is not our bandleader. In theory and in his words we are just "a group of friends" that join up for making some music. We both are the only of the four people that doesn´t really need an extra income from gigs, but we decided this summer that booking some payed gigs would be fun. The thing about him is that he doesn´t play very good. In fact, he is the less experienced musician of all of us and he doesn´t have time to study by his own, so rehearsals are basically him trying to learn the tunes while we provide a backing track. But it has been fun, we allways end up drinking some beers after rehearsal, and i love how the other guys play. We have a very friendly relationship between us four. On the other hand, he is the only one of us that has a car, he goes to every house to pick us up, and he is the most connected person, reserving us the gigs, talking to the bar owners and whatnot. In general we are happy this way. But, i received a call this morning. Before that i was talking to the guitar player and he said to me that he was needing some money right now. I said to him "Sure man, we just book some gigs next week". I told the "bandleader" (sax player from now on) if we could do some gigs on the fly with songs we allready should have (without rehearsal), but he "had a cold and he wasn´t in the mood for blowing", for a gig next weekend?????? I said, "sure bro, we can just play trio. You know guitar player needs money". And here everything starts: first of all he tried to make me jealous saying that some other band wanted he to play sax with them, i said "ok, we are allowed to play with other people" Then he said like "but this is not what we have decided, all of us are important in this" and "don´t worry, just wait till next month and i will book us a lot of gigs, but i need to recover". I know waiting one week more is not a big deal (at least for me), but i don´t know if he should decide this stuff single handedly. I know he should feel that we are letting him behind somehow, but on the other hand is just a gig. What do you think?