So the story is the band I am in is playing Bend Oregon soon. The plan was we all load into the van and go. House gear allows us to use one van but are taking a car in addition to the van for comfort. We are leaving a day before the show and getting a motel because three of us work nights and if we left day of the show I as the driver of the van would be running on a few hours of sleep so I booked the motel as a safety concern. The Problem is the main guitar player is not able to get off that day and being a night worker for him to make the show he has to work the evening shift then drive to Bend in a 6 hour drive at night. What could go wrong? I suggested to the drummer we cancel the show but he brushed it off saying he's seen our band mate pull off the impossible before. The gig is a fest and we go on early on the second day around 4PM. NO idea how many people will be there but my guess is few. Promised some expenses money. All in all I did not see it very worthwhile to begin with but us all leaving on the same day was one thing but now I learn the Guitar player has to pull an all nighter to get there. Once he does he'll have at best 5 hours to sleep before we are kicked out of the room at check out. Then he also has to drive out. Am I being overly worried?