Ok this is a situation that has bugged me for a while. I have somethign called a xanga... it's like an online journal type of thing. and obviously a lot of my friends have one. so we all talk to each other through there. fine. no problem. earlier this year my dad has also gotten one. (he is 49). at first he just used it for a journal, but it got worse. he then proceded to look on my friends list and send people messages, and ultimately become friends with some of my friends, guys and girls. keep in mind that my friends range from the ages of 15-21. it's not just my friends either. its my band mates. my ex-girlfriends and some people that i don't even know in real life, i met them on the internet. am i the only one that finds something wrong with this?