I don't want to start a debate, but I play both with a pick and with my fingers (depending upon the song/sound I want to achieve). I would like to play w/ a pick but have a little closer to using my fingers sound (not as bright). I am currently using a Flex 75 nylon pick. Can anyone recommend picks to get that more closely sound like fingers hitting the strings? Also, how do I try out a bunch of different picks without buying a package of each? I'd like to sample a bunch first and I never see any loose picks out at the music store that you can try first (have to buy a bag each at $5 a pop). Thanks for any and all help.