Background Facts - Rehearsal time historically 6:30-9:30 pm on Thursday and One practice mid-day on the weekend if no gig that weekend. -there is an expectation of one practice during the week, and one during the weekend if no gig. To keep a healthy family/band balance my availability has changed and i sent the following email this morning. I am asking for your thoughts and opinions. Am I being unreasonable? EMAIL -Monday and Thursday's Soccer practice is over at 7:30 this puts me at drummers house a little before or right at 8:00 pm. Soccer is over at the end of October. -Tuesday, Wednesday, Friday, I can leave my house @ 7:00 pm be there around 7:10 probably a little before. -Sat and Sunday ... same story 7:00pm - I cannot practice outside of these time frames. Especially on the weekends. Early weekends is where most of my "spouse discussions" were coming from. I seriously had no clue until last weekend. -I can practice multiple day's a week at these times, one weekend day. My personal practice time when not at band rehearsal is 8pm-930pm. It took me several discussions last week to get these time frames. Again ... I will come prepped and ready to play. I'll make sure my charts are completed and they actually make it to rehearsal going forward.