OK. heres the background. for he past weeek ive been hanging with this girl, and i found out on thursday she "likes me". On monday I told her how i felt. however, shes in a fairly serious relationship, but i can tell shes been wanting to be with me, as shes told me so in so many words (eg "yeh it has been great fun and so new"). the main problem? her BF used to be a fairly decent friend of mine. to me, i know he wouldnt mind to much, as in the past he hasnt worried much about losing a girl, but i think this particuler girl would affect him. at that, id always thought i would be a friend, than selfish... on the pro, im not great friends with her BF anymore, and he is one of the main reasons i stopped hangign with that group of friends... i dunno. should i chase this girkl some more, and see what happens? or shoulod i be more of a "frind" and stop beig flirty, etc. n.b.: id never let her cheat on him, with me.