I know this is very long but I need somebody to talk to this about- Ok so I was with this girl for 13 months and 9 days and it was an awesome relationship and I had it made. So then on April 1 she dumps me in biology class, we were considering it more of a break than a breakup (meaning we'd get back together.) So I was pretty sad about that but I managed cause we both knew and agreed that we still liked eachother very much. So the next day at school (april 2) I heard from somebody that this guy asked her out to prom right after he heard we'd broken up. Prom is friday (april 25). I was shocked that he'd do something like that but then I talked to my X and found out she had accepted. I was bothered and didn't see her the rest of the day. So the next day at school (april 3) I talked to her in biology class and talked to her about this guy who is one of those chick users and that he's that type of guy cause I've heard it firsthand from his mouth. I got the impression that she understood what I was talking about but later that night she went out with him and went to his house. He kissed her there (tongue in mouth) and then they went out to a movie. So she got back that night and we talked online and she was really scared that he'd done that and she said she was sorry and regretted everything and said she was going to tell him she's not going to prom with him anymore. Then came spring break and we didn't see eachother at all. So when spring break was over I was talking to her about this guy and now she's unsure if she wants to go to prom with him but she says she doesn't like him any more than a friend. But then a few days later she wants to go to prom with him and she says she doesn't know if she likes him. And a few days ago I was hanging out at her house and she was doing non-friend things with me like having me sit in the same chair as her right in front of her with her arms around me and putting her face against mine. My mistake, I shouldn't have done any of that. So we got to talking about prom and I jokingly said "he's probably gonna try to kiss you." and she says "yeah he probably will." And I asked her if she's just let him do that and she said yes. Keep in mind this is with her leaning against me with her arms around me. So I was dissapointed in her character and I walked home and talked to her online. We started talking about this guy and she had earlier said she didn't want a boyfriend relationship with him and he didn't want one with her either. I asked her if she thought it was ok for friends to kiss and cuddle and that kind of stuff with no kind of commitment and she said yes. This surprised me, I had never known she was like this. But she still said she liked me a lot and she didn't really know if she liked him. So tonight (april 22) was a jazz band concert and I'm in the jazz band so I asked her if she wanted to come and she said she was busy with work, but she showed up with this guy and when I looked back at where they were sitting they had their arms around eachother and she had her head on his shoulder. So now I think it's time I just said goodbye to her cause I don't want to watch her stomp on my feelings anymore.