For those of you who haven't read my previous thread I'd reccomend doing so to understand this one. So from monday up until last night me and my X were sort of in a tranquil state and we didn't really have anything between us, until she IMs me. She said that it was too hard to be friends and that we should either not have anything to do with eachother or get back together. So I asked her what the state was between her and this other guy (by the way, I found out that they made out on prom night) and she told me she didn't know. I told her that she had become a different person that I didn't see myself with and that we wouldn't get back together. She told me that she saw everything as a big mistake and she regretted it. But I told her that we had gone through that earlier where she regretted everything and wanted things to be back how they were and then she just changed her mind about it. She told me that was because I'd pissed her off, so I said if she could change her standpoint so drastically by being pissed off then there is something wrong. She was getting sad and she said she had nobody to turn to, so I told her she still had me to turn to cause I'd always listen to her and I still cared about her. and then she said "that's bulls***" and that I didn't care about her. She said if I cared about her I would have given us a chance to get back together, which blew my mind because for almost a month she was telling me about how she didn't want to get back together and she didn't want a boyfriend. So the online conversation ended with her telling me she hates her life (not once had she apologized for anything in the conversation). So that kinda sucked. But then today at school during band class first hour she comes up to me with a bag and just set it beside my chair and walked off. I looked inside the bag and it was everything I'd ever gotten for her or anything that had something to do with me- necklace, earrings, a watch, bracelet, lotion, candles, a CD, notes, valentines, flower grams, and every single picture she owned with me in it. So along with many other school mates I think that was a pretty crappy thing for her to do and I just thought I'd share that with my fellow bassists. The thing is that I'm not too torn up by any of this cause I'm pretty much over her now.