I've been on the fence about moving to chicago from minneapolis. Right now i love my job and minneapolis is a nice city but we don't have friends or family up here. I got a job offer in chicago that pays only slightly less but with overtime i could make more. My wife is working as a medical assistant and wants to go to nursing school full time. It's kinda late to be looking at fall acceptance to schools anyway but we're trying. She hates her job and wants to get school out of the way but most schools have weird prerequisites that are going to take longer to get done. if we move, we'd have to find her a job or school. the job would be just until she gets into nursing school. then there's the financial thing where we hope we can get by either with her having a job or off the extra from the school loans to pay whats necessary. she wants to raise our family down there since we have more family there. so it sounds like we're going to have to do this eventually anyway and i'd like to get it done sooner than later its so hard to just say goodbye to a great job just to be closer to family but if thats what it takes... what should i do?