Long time no post. As I am sure no one missed me I am still hoping y'all could still give some advice on this subject. Our singer left last Sunday for training before he is stationed around Fallujah. He said when he gets back(18 months) he is looking forward to playing some shows etc but if we have new singer he is looking forward to coming to some shows. When he said that I could tell it hurt. Drummer and guitarist are wanting to find a new singer asap. Bit of background. The singer is the only unmarried member(recently engaged) and was the lax guy sometimes skipping practice, chasing skirts at the shoes even though we all no his girlfriend. In other words he sometimes pi$$ed us off. Especially me as I have wanted to give him the boot many times. We also play 2-4 shows a month. Well now I am feeling bad about looking for another singer as I feel we are taking something away that he can look forward too while stationed in a bad situation. I feel like we might be doing something I will feel very guilty about for awhile. Sort of like having the girl dump you before you go to war. Any advice or tips?? Side note it is nice visiting again!!!